Thank you, Sex & Secrets! I have never been in a relationship so I would not have experienced this dynamic partners share around masturbation. I love to fantasize about what my future relationship might be like, especially to get me used to the idea of being in one, emotionally prepare myself, and make sure I have the subconscious green light to make it happen when the time is right. :)

Your article was nice because it helps me think about the reasons I might subconsciously be more comfortable being alone. Once I am partnered, I can still masturbate but I will have to get used to having different types of orgasms, navigating rejection, facing my insecurities in the bedroom, sex taking more time, and being there to support and reassure my partner. I look forward to these new experiences!