Aww, I loved the theme of this article. That you have known your daughter's name since age 12 and think of her when you see strollers. ^_^

#1 was the most challenging for me! Because I would have thought, "I want my child to feel comfortable telling me anything." But truthfully, my child would probably want tons of space just like I did.

If I ever became a parent, I would surrender to my child being a private mystery to me, allowing them to have secrets and grow more distant. That respect of kids' autonomy is so important. :)

Actually, reading this made me think about my relationships with family members whom I wish were closer to me. The more I can let go of how they feel about me or what they do or don't share with me, the better, I think - but it's hard sometimes.

You will be an amazing, magnificent, beautiful mom.