Alan, thank you for your words of appreciation. It's so awesome that transgender women and feminism enhanced your experience of your own sexuality and gender.
Finding men who are attracted to a strong feminine spirit was my reboot. I realized not to get hung up on the "imperfections" of my physique which would turn some suitors off, because everyone is different. There were plenty of masculine guys like I like who flutter for the feminine spirits of trans women, so I could just relax and be myself. <3
Your poetry is on my reading list. :)